My ex is dating
It is easy to want to compare yourself to your ‘replacement’ and wonder what he sees in her, but the reality is that you’ll probably never know and you’re burning up energy better used elsewhere.
Some people start dating to force themselves to move on, some to bury the pain and yes, some are just ready to jump back in the saddle.
If they’ve been in the relationship for a few months or less, then it’s probably a rebound and it will end soon.
On the other hand, if their relationship has been going on for over a year, then you can safely assume that the relationship is serious for them and it’s probably not a rebound.
Your ex broke up with you and left you heartbroken.
And while you are still trying to understand what happened and pick up the shattered pieces of your life, your ex has started another relationship. Your ex seems happy and their new relationship seems to be going perfectly.
You are confused because everyone seems to be telling you it’s a rebound relationship while your instincts tell you that your ex has moved on.But the reality is that it’s probably not going to happen like that and it’s a littttttle bit childish.Does it really matter which one of you starts dating first and does it that he’s dating? They will support you more than you could have possibly imagined. What are the chances they are going to end up happily ever after? Focus on your kids, your career, and your love life, if you choose. I'm so so sorry." She will still be upset, but at least you're thinking of your friend's feelings. If she goes off on you, at least you can say you handled it the best way you could have. So, let them have their fun and concentrate on making your own life better. I hope you understand that we don't want to hurt you.